It transformed and cultivated a new relationship with my female body.
Like most women, I was not taught to have a relationship with my female body. I was actually taught the opposite – to ignore, reject and criticize it; to subtly believe there was something gross, ugly, weird, and wrong with my lady parts. To believe I should be more like this and less like that. I was also taught my body and pleasure exist first and foremost for whatever man I happen to be with, and that finding and securing said man should be one of my main life goals.
At some point, this all stopped working for me (it actually never worked, I just didn't have the awareness, tools and support to do anything about it for many years)
Many women have self-care, self-development and spiritual practices, yet their female body is somehow excluded from this equation (this was also me for the many years I was a devout yogi and meditator).
Many women haven’t even considered what a relationship with their pussy or female body would be like. Many women haven’t even looked at, let alone WORSHIPED their own vulva in the mirror. Many women have never touched the inside of their own vaginas. Many women touch their own or let their yonis be touched and/or entered before there’s a clear yes, or even when there’s a clear no. Many women do not take the time to talk to and listen to the deep messages that come from their womb and pussy. Many women force themselves into orgasm by squeezing, pressing down and holding their breath. Many women do not know the simple joys and pleasure of a sensual massage of their vulva with absolutely no agenda to experience anything in particular.
I’ve experienced all of this, and have sat with hundreds of women who have said the same things to me, over and over again.
The good news is all of this can shift and change, and I’ve found that the jade egg is one of the most amazing tools for cultivating a new relationship with your female body.
The cool thing is that it works. When you show up for your female body, she responds. Chances are, she's been waiting months, years, lifetimes for you to show up for her. When you give her your loving attention and presence, when you create a space where absolutely everything is ok and welcome, when you revere her as your source of power, pleasure, intuition, wisdom and spirit, something deeply profound happens. She begins to wake up from the inside out. She heals, enlivens, comes to life, and empowers you beyond your wildest dreams…