Women are not taught about our own bodies.
Most women weren't even taught their own anatomy, the wisdom in our cycles, why our pleasure matters, or how to be in a loving, mutual relationship with our body & pusee.
Instead, so many of us have learned to control our bodies, perform in them, and override their yes and no. To have shame or shut down around our sexuality and push past it.
For billions of women, this has become normal. It shows up as:
- Numbness, distance, or a sense of going through the motions with your body and sexuality
- Tension held in the pelvis that has been there for years
- Wounding and trauma patterns that therapy hasn't healed
- Pleasure that feels inconsistent, blocked, or just out of reach, or that doesn't go beyond clitoral o-gazums
- Reproductive and sexual health issues that haven't been connected back to disconnection
- A quiet knowing that there is more available, but not knowing how to get there
This is the legacy so many women and girls inherit... and all of us have the ability to make profound and often unexpected shifts in how we experience our bodies, se(x)uaity and sensuality.
— THE TRUTH —
There is nothing to fix. Your body is simply waiting to be met in a way she has never been met before — with presence, softness, and listening. When you learn to approach her that way, everything begins to shift — in both your sexuality and in your overall life.
This is a course about education, relationship & technique.
Temple of Touch is a guided return to your body. Through touch, anatomy and somatic awareness, you begin to meet your female body with presence, softness, and a genuine welcoming to be with whatever comes up.
You learn to be with sensation and emotion as they arise with loving awareness - without needing to change, push aside, rush through or perform anything.
Life-changing pusee connection grows in that space, both physically and emotionally... And so do your healing and pleasure.
— THE METHODOLOGY —
How we approach the body
Inside Temple of Touch, you move through a step-by-step, trauma & nervous system informed pathway that weaves education together with guided embodied touch. The progression moves slowly from the outside in, through your whole body and then the full anatomy of your vulva and vagina - intentional, unhurried, with permission to always follow what's best for you.
I.
Pusee Massage
Opening the door
Slow, grounding touch that builds safety, trust, and genuine connection. This is where the relationship begins.
II.
Pusee Mapping
Learning your body
Discovering and exploring sensation while building somatic awareness of your internal landscape.
III.
Pusee De‑Armoring
Releasing what's been held
Meeting & listening to tension, numbness, emotion and even pleasure with presence and love.
IV.
Pleasure Expansion
Opening to more
Allowing sensation, pleasure, and orgasmic capacity to grow to places you've never known!
Nothing is rushed, skipped, or required.
Each layer is met on its own terms and allowed to open in its own time.
When we bring these tools to the body, four things happen at once.
I. A new relationship with your body
You build a felt, loving connection with your pusee through intentional presence and touch - with no goal other than opening to know, love and honor yourself, your pusee and your body just as you are.
II. Gentle, self-led healing
You learn to soften stored tension while holding past wounding and trauma, and begin to reconnect with your pusee's desires, truth and voice.
III. Deeper sensation and expanded pleasure
Your pleasure deepens, new layers of sensation awaken, and your orgasmic ability expands alongside your capacity to hold more pleasure in your body.
IV. Your power, returned to you
By going deeply into your sexual center, you reconnect with the core of your feminine essence and the wisdom that has always been living there.
Everything you receive when you join
- We begin Tuesday, August 11th with Orientation & Pussy School
- 7 live modules follow on Thursdays August 13 - September 24
- All calls are at 1pm Eastern/7pm Central European time
7
Progressive modules moving through vulva and vaginal touch - each with transmission and guided practice.
+2
Bonus sections on the nervous system and feminine embodiment.
Live calls
7 weeks of live calls - transmission, guided practice, sisterhood, sharing, and Q&A.
Thursdays, 1pm Eastern Time, beginning August 13
Lifetime access
To all course material - return to it whenever your body calls you back.
Pusee pod
Optional Pusee Pod to connect with women in your region and deepen your experience of the coursework.
Free future rounds
All future live rounds of Temple of Touch, at no extra cost - at least one per year.
Pusee School
Masterclass on female anatomy and pleasure education to combine education with embodiment
Community Space
For questions, sharing, and connecting with others
Free Membership
In The Jade Temple Online Membership from the moment you sign up until 2 months after the course finishes
— IS IT FOR YOU?
Temple of Touch is for every woman on the planet.
No prior experience is needed. The coursework is trauma informed, designed to meet you exactly where you are.
Women carrying deep, unmet sexual trauma may find one-to-one support alongside this container helpful.
✓ You are brand new to this kind of work and need to led
✓ You have explored your body & pusee before and want guided support to reconnect and go deeper
✓ You want to move at your own pace - all practices can be modified, nothing is required and you have lifetime access to the course material
✓ You are ready to have your no celebrated as much as your yes
What you'll need
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A private space where you can be with your body without interruption
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Oil or lube for the practices
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A crystal wand is optional and encouraged for those who feel called, and your fingers are the best tool you have
— OPTIONAL TOOLS —
If you feel called to work with a wand
Your fingers are always the best tool you have - every practice in this course can be done with them alone. And, a yoni wand can be a beautiful companion, especially when we explore deeper internal vaginal work. These are the wands we use and trust, hand-selected for this work. We always recommend going with your intuition on which wand is right for you.
Meet your guide — Hilary.
Hi, I'm Hilary, a holistic sexuality and feminine embodiment mentor, educator, and founder of The Jade Temple.
This work is deeply personal to me.
For most of my life I felt disconnected, numb, and carried a lot of trauma in my body and sexuality. I knew there was more available to me, but I had no idea how to move from feeling so shut down to knowing, loving, and honoring myself and my female body.
I wanted healing from my past, aliveness and to experience deep connection with my partner, and the pleasure, orgasms, and freedom I sensed were possible but didn't know how to get to on my own.
That search led me through nearly twenty years of study and practice that changed my body, sexuality, relationships and life.
For the past ten years I've guided thousands of women through the exact path of female holistic sexual embodiment that made such huge changes in my own body and sexuality. Everything I teach in Temple of Touch comes from my own journey, years of study, and witnessing what creates lasting change in my & my student's bodies and sexuality.
My work is trauma-informed, grounded in both science and spirituality, and rooted in the belief that healing happens most powerfully in safe, compassionate community where the only goal is to meet ourselves with loving presence. My vision is a world where women grow up knowing, loving and honoring their female bodies, and that this wisdom is passed from one generation to the next, like it used to be.
Because this work changes lives... And together, we're changing the world, one pusee at a time.
Hear the voices of women who followed the call
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"Hilary is a leader in the blossoming field of helping women reclaim their pleasure, sensuality, and sexuality. She is highly skilled in holding a safe space and empowering women to do profoundly deep and transformative work. As a practitioner, I came to Hilary's sessions to carve out some time for myself, as healers need healing too! I found her course to be a welcome place for sharing, sisterhood, and setting aside some much needed time for self-nourishment."
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"This is the course ALL girls and women should take. It’s essential for knowing your female body, being grounded in it and learning how to use and tap into the most powerful energy we have. These are practices and knowledge you can use for the rest of your life. The most tangible and rewarding approach to self-love. Everything else is theory, this is real. The real basis for living our lives fully as women."
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"It is impossible to put into words the depth of gratitude I feel for you. It took 41 years to get to this moment, and I will never forget the work that got me here... and you and your work is what lead the way. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you."
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"Before this course, I had frustration and confusion around my pleasure and sexuality. Now I have reclaimed my sexuality and so much more than sexual pleasure - nourishment, love, tenderness, sensuality, empowerment, knowing what I really want, knowing my desires and boundaries, feeling safe and being with whatever is present in me. It helped me to refine what I want in other areas of my life. I feel so much more alive, empowered and happy. I felt very welcomed, heard, understood and empowered. I liked the structure of the course and how organically and gently things unfolded. I liked the sisterhood and feeling relaxed around this group of women."
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What might be whispering "not yet"
"I'm too closed, or I'm not ready."
This work doesn't ask you to arrive open or to fix or change anything about yourself. It meets you exactly where you are now, even if that's just being present with yourself and your body until you feel ready to go deeper.
"My partner might not understand."
Many women find that this work deepens connection and intimacy in their relationships in ways they didn't expect and couldn't have predicted before beginning.
"My sex life is already good."
This isn't about fixing something broken. Every woman, regardless of where she is in her relationship with her body, has the capacity to expand — in sensation, pleasure, connection & orgasm — and there is always more available than what we currently know, even if we can't conceive of it yet.
"I feel nervous."
Many women feel nervous or afraid to meet or deepen with pusee - there is deep power and vulnerability there. The work in this course is slow, guided, and built entirely around your own yes and no - you will never be asked to do anything that doesn't feel right to you, and you will always be supported in honoring exactly where you are.
— THE INVITATION —
Picture a version of yourself who is turned on by her own presence.
Who trusts her body's yes and her body's no. Who experiences pleasure that is fuller, deeper, and more available than anything she has known before, and who moves through her life with more creativity, clarity, and power because of it. That is what becomes possible when you are genuinely in relationship with your pusee.
The journey begins Tuesday, August 11 with Pusee School
Then 7 Live calls: Thursdays, 1–3:00pm, from August 13
◆ If you join and feel it's not for you, you can request a full refund within the first 7 days. No questions asked.
Pusee has been waiting for you, and although she is not going anywhere...
You could keep waiting for the right moment, the right version of yourself, the right feeling of readiness or spaciousness in your life. Or you could begin now, with the body & life you have, exactly where you are in your relationship with your sexuality and yourself.
So many women's pleasure & power are untapped, and this is how you reach it.
Will you follow the call?
YES, I'M READY
Everything else you might be wondering
What happens after I sign up?
When are the live calls?
Is this live or self-paced?
What's the refund policy?
Are there any scholarships available?
She has been waiting long enough.
The journey begins Tuesday, August 11.
Arrive exactly as you are.
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